Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Big butts
Hooray for big butt-ers! I have the same problem (or should we say blessing! nod! it is.. child baring heaps my ex’s mum used to call them.. hah!) I hate how when I put on weight, my hips/butt look bigger, and my top remain the same.. and when I lose weight it’s never the same.. the top’s the first to go… Why Why why?!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
Re: Big butts
Exactly, maybe we’ll have lots of children 🙂 I wish I could dictate where all my fat will go to – boobs!!
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
I completely understand where you’re coming from on the career vs. family argument. Just for the sake of argument tho, do you think you’d be as confident in picking career over marriage if you didn’t have Chris in the equation? And I don’t mean like, if you both broke up, but if he wasn’t there at all– sort of like he hadn’t yet came into existance.
I ask because I find myself wanting more and more to climb the career ladder, but I used to so very badly want a family more than anything. Now that I’m a manager in a successful career, I still want a family but it’s not as important and I often wonder if that would be any different if I suddenly fell in love. And I guess in a way, because you have Chris by your side for so long, it’s as though you haven’t had to really stop and contemplate switching directions because he and you are on the same wavelength where marriage and career are concerned.
So yeah, if Chris wasn’t part of the equation (not because of breakup, but because he was just a figment of imagination), do you think you’d be in the same mindset?
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
You have a really good point. I know what you mean – the whole being complacent thing, so you don’t *think* you need it, right?
I have to say though, at my age, NOT having Chris wouldn’t change my mind.. reason being I know I’m still awfully young, so not having a significant other isn’t really going to make me panic and yearn for one. Chris means the absolute world to me, but if he never existed, I wouldn’t feel like I need to be out there bf-hunting. BUT, if I were 10 years older, it’ll probably be really really different!
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
but he reckons I need to lose weight before I buy a bikini – as I currently look quite flabby and fatty in it. That sounded harsh. Anyways, how can you be underweight and flabby? I agree with you about not getting married, I’m the same way about kids.
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
Nah, it’s true.. you don’t have to be overweight to be flabby! As you get older I guess your metabolism kinda starts crapping out on you :X
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
i hate carrots too! hahaha =)
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I totally understand where your coming from on the while marriage thing. I myself have similar goals, and I as well am afraid of getting married. Some people want families and I think thats wonderful for THEM. Some people want a career and that is what I choose, it is nice to know there are other people who choose the same.
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
I’m sure i’ll want a family later on.. just not yet. I really like having a career and just achieving stuff in life, y’know? I find it much more rewarding 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂
The anklet-turned-bracelet sounds REALLY charming~! 🙂