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well you already have 100+ responses to this but wanted to add mine anyway…I hope things work out wonderfully for you both!

that you are happy and that you can work out the issues…

all relationships do take work if they last long enough…its just the way it goes πŸ˜€

so happy you are looking for a way to work it out…

well you already have 100+ responses to this but wanted to add mine anyway…I hope things work out wonderfully for you both!

that you are happy and that you can work out the issues…

all relationships do take work if they last long enough…its just the way it goes πŸ˜€

so happy you are looking for a way to work it out…

I am very happy for you both, you know sometimes it takes somehting like this to wake each other up and realise that while you love each other so much after a long time, people start getting….lazy? Its great they you both opened up your lines of communication and showed your true thoughts and feelings! YEYE

it was a good wake up call, I wish you both the best.

It’s good to hear that things are working out better for the both of you.

Hope the time away is enjoyable and rekindles what you guys had – it made me sad when I heard about the break because you and Chris were always the 2 who I thought epitomised a great relationship.

πŸ™‚

Thanks for your nice words πŸ™‚
We’ve always had a really great relationship and it’s only gotten.. ‘weird’… lately, so we’re both keen to get back what we had. We just need to be more understanding of each other, etc, I think..

I am very happy for you both, you know sometimes it takes somehting like this to wake each other up and realise that while you love each other so much after a long time, people start getting….lazy? Its great they you both opened up your lines of communication and showed your true thoughts and feelings! YEYE

it was a good wake up call, I wish you both the best.

It’s good to hear that things are working out better for the both of you.

Hope the time away is enjoyable and rekindles what you guys had – it made me sad when I heard about the break because you and Chris were always the 2 who I thought epitomised a great relationship.

πŸ™‚

Thanks for your nice words πŸ™‚
We’ve always had a really great relationship and it’s only gotten.. ‘weird’… lately, so we’re both keen to get back what we had. We just need to be more understanding of each other, etc, I think..

Yay! I was actually really sad when you mentioned the possibility of a breakup but now I’m soooo happy that you guys are giving it another go. Yay!!! I think in a way, you were kind of like me…not quite ready to let go of your bf yet. Not being ready to let go means there’s still hope. I hope you two have the bestest time on your holiday. Just focus on each other and rekindle that love that’s always been there. Have fun, Bev! *^^* β™₯β™₯β™₯

I”m really happy too.. I’ve decided the breakup was all wrong for us, we just needed to talk, that’s all πŸ™‚
And thank you! *hug*

I totally agree! Sometimes miscommunication turns into a lot of misunderstandings. Talking things out is definitely the best! *HUGS* back to you! *^^*

well whatever makes you happy. i’ve learned at this point in time relationships run their course wether you like it or not…hope things turn out well for you…

Hey Bev, glad that from now on, i will see ‘us’ in your emtries again, instead of ‘I’.(if you know what i mean :p). I went through this period with Darren before and after our time apart, we realised that this is what we really wanted and we started anew again. Its been 7 years and its still great. Im sure you guys will turn out fine too.

At least enjoy ythe holiday and the opportunity to talk things through. Sometimes we do need a crisis to have issues brought to light that were simmering for a ong time, and need that chance to discuss.

Whatever the outcome, it will be a good experience. Good luck!

I’m glad you guys could work it out-though it seems impendable since you guys were and are together for a very long time. Lots of couples take mini breaks. In the end though, isn’t it funny how things work out usually for the better?

I’m so glad you guys are working things out πŸ™‚ I think it’s awesome that you two are communicating in terms of what “went wrong” in the relationship. I think it’ll only make the relationship even stronger.

Whacking all our issues out together feels so good, to be honest.. we already did so much of it over the weekend, but I think it’s important we get it ALL out on our trip πŸ™‚

Yay! I was actually really sad when you mentioned the possibility of a breakup but now I’m soooo happy that you guys are giving it another go. Yay!!! I think in a way, you were kind of like me…not quite ready to let go of your bf yet. Not being ready to let go means there’s still hope. I hope you two have the bestest time on your holiday. Just focus on each other and rekindle that love that’s always been there. Have fun, Bev! *^^* β™₯β™₯β™₯

I”m really happy too.. I’ve decided the breakup was all wrong for us, we just needed to talk, that’s all πŸ™‚
And thank you! *hug*

I totally agree! Sometimes miscommunication turns into a lot of misunderstandings. Talking things out is definitely the best! *HUGS* back to you! *^^*

well whatever makes you happy. i’ve learned at this point in time relationships run their course wether you like it or not…hope things turn out well for you…

Hey Bev, glad that from now on, i will see ‘us’ in your emtries again, instead of ‘I’.(if you know what i mean :p). I went through this period with Darren before and after our time apart, we realised that this is what we really wanted and we started anew again. Its been 7 years and its still great. Im sure you guys will turn out fine too.

It’s nice to at least recondier us and really really try and show each other what the other person means to us.. being in love is nice πŸ™‚

At least enjoy ythe holiday and the opportunity to talk things through. Sometimes we do need a crisis to have issues brought to light that were simmering for a ong time, and need that chance to discuss.

Whatever the outcome, it will be a good experience. Good luck!

i’m glad

i’m glad that you and Chris worked things out. communication is the key to a successful relationship… and i’m glad you two talked and talked and talked until your heads hurt. i’ve been there and done that… and as long as you two talk through your differences, everything will work out. i’ve been through much worse but now i just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary as proof that everything will work itself out in the end. *hugs*

Re: i’m glad

we’ll see how we go.. it will be good to just whack all our issues out πŸ™‚

Congrats on your 7th anniversary, it’s wonderful! πŸ˜€

Weirdly enough I went through the same thing a week later from yours. =/ A friend advised not to hope/expect but it’s only natural to hope, isn’t it.

And it’s very true, the saying that goes, “you’ll never know what you got till it’s gone”.

I hope yours turns out well. =)

I guess I didn’t expect me to actually want it all back.. I thought we’d be better off apart back then, but now? I don’t think we can survive without each other!

*hugs to you* πŸ™‚

I’m so glad you and Chris decided work things out.. After all, you guys have been together for so long. So I really hope you guys would be fine this time. <3 :)

indeed it’s true.

only when we lose something, then will we know how important that thing is to us. πŸ™‚

wishing you both a happy happy 1st date!

1 Corinthians 13

I’m glad you guys could work it out-though it seems impendable since you guys were and are together for a very long time. Lots of couples take mini breaks. In the end though, isn’t it funny how things work out usually for the better?

I’m glad you did post. As someone else said, your tone in your other posts had been different…I’m glad that you two have decided to keep moving forward. πŸ™‚

It’s really important that we really understand each other and what each other needs.. so some time away together will be good πŸ™‚

I am so happy to hear this for you!! Smth that I was looking forward to seeing.

Enjoy the hols of yours – it’s going to be a wizard. πŸ™‚

hey, glad things are working out for you and glad that you’re happier πŸ˜‰
enjoy your holiday!
*hugs*

I’m so glad you guys are working things out πŸ™‚ I think it’s awesome that you two are communicating in terms of what “went wrong” in the relationship. I think it’ll only make the relationship even stronger.

Whacking all our issues out together feels so good, to be honest.. we already did so much of it over the weekend, but I think it’s important we get it ALL out on our trip πŸ™‚

I had been wondering how this situation was affecting you – the tone of your posts was different. I hope you enjoy your holiday and things work out for the best for you. πŸ™‚

I’ve been feeling a little… fragile.. the past 1-2 weeks, I guess. I still am, it will take time for both of us to recover, but we hope for the best πŸ™‚

Yeah.. in a way a good relationship should require no work, yet it also requires a lot of work. If that makes sense!!

That’s great. Communication really helps, and I’m glad you guys are talking it through!~

Best wishes from back down under….

I’m so glad to hear that things are working out between you two! I wish you all the best, Bev… I’m sure this whole experience teaches you to understand each other better.

You are right. Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone… but once you realize that you’ve lost something good, you’ll learn not to take it for granted the next time around πŸ™‚

It’s nice to at least recondier us and really really try and show each other what the other person means to us.. being in love is nice πŸ™‚

hey bev, its lovely to see the both of you working things out. Love of this measure i dont see often enough.

Blessed Aniversary in advance.

Me too, I hope we will work out in the long run.. I have a lot of faith in us, esp after what’s happened in the past week!

i’m glad

i’m glad that you and Chris worked things out. communication is the key to a successful relationship… and i’m glad you two talked and talked and talked until your heads hurt. i’ve been there and done that… and as long as you two talk through your differences, everything will work out. i’ve been through much worse but now i just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary as proof that everything will work itself out in the end. *hugs*

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we’ll see how we go.. it will be good to just whack all our issues out πŸ™‚

Congrats on your 7th anniversary, it’s wonderful! πŸ˜€

Weirdly enough I went through the same thing a week later from yours. =/ A friend advised not to hope/expect but it’s only natural to hope, isn’t it.

And it’s very true, the saying that goes, “you’ll never know what you got till it’s gone”.

I hope yours turns out well. =)

I guess I didn’t expect me to actually want it all back.. I thought we’d be better off apart back then, but now? I don’t think we can survive without each other!

*hugs to you* πŸ™‚

I’m so glad you and Chris decided work things out.. After all, you guys have been together for so long. So I really hope you guys would be fine this time. <3 :)

indeed it’s true.

only when we lose something, then will we know how important that thing is to us. πŸ™‚

wishing you both a happy happy 1st date!

1 Corinthians 13

Hehe thanks! We’re trying to think of it as kinda a ‘first date’.. as we now know a lot more about each other than we did before

I’m glad you did post. As someone else said, your tone in your other posts had been different…I’m glad that you two have decided to keep moving forward. πŸ™‚

It’s really important that we really understand each other and what each other needs.. so some time away together will be good πŸ™‚

I’m so happy to hear that the two of you are going to work things out. πŸ™‚ I guess the saying is true, you don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone.

I am so happy to hear this for you!! Smth that I was looking forward to seeing.

Enjoy the hols of yours – it’s going to be a wizard. πŸ™‚

*huggies*

Sometimes we take things for granted, hoping it will be better.
Hope you and Chris work things out, for better or worse.

Take care!

That’s really true.. I think it’s important to air out any little thing, so that it doesn’t just grow in the back of your mind. We’ve learnt a lot πŸ™‚

hey, glad things are working out for you and glad that you’re happier πŸ˜‰
enjoy your holiday!
*hugs*

I had been wondering how this situation was affecting you – the tone of your posts was different. I hope you enjoy your holiday and things work out for the best for you. πŸ™‚

I’ve been feeling a little… fragile.. the past 1-2 weeks, I guess. I still am, it will take time for both of us to recover, but we hope for the best πŸ™‚

Yeah.. in a way a good relationship should require no work, yet it also requires a lot of work. If that makes sense!!

Awww… thanks. In a way we were weak and just needed each other, and in a way we were strong to want to overcome this!

Oh guess that was a ‘test’ to show you both are really meant for one another. Good that this has a happy ending.

That’s great. Communication really helps, and I’m glad you guys are talking it through!~

Best wishes from back down under….

I’m so glad to hear that things are working out between you two! I wish you all the best, Bev… I’m sure this whole experience teaches you to understand each other better.

You are right. Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone… but once you realize that you’ve lost something good, you’ll learn not to take it for granted the next time around πŸ™‚

hey bev, its lovely to see the both of you working things out. Love of this measure i dont see often enough.

Blessed Aniversary in advance.

Me too, I hope we will work out in the long run.. I have a lot of faith in us, esp after what’s happened in the past week!

Hehe thanks! We’re trying to think of it as kinda a ‘first date’.. as we now know a lot more about each other than we did before

I’m so happy to hear that the two of you are going to work things out. πŸ™‚ I guess the saying is true, you don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone.

*huggies*

Sometimes we take things for granted, hoping it will be better.
Hope you and Chris work things out, for better or worse.

Take care!

That’s really true.. I think it’s important to air out any little thing, so that it doesn’t just grow in the back of your mind. We’ve learnt a lot πŸ™‚

Awww… thanks. In a way we were weak and just needed each other, and in a way we were strong to want to overcome this!

Oh guess that was a ‘test’ to show you both are really meant for one another. Good that this has a happy ending.