My past 2 weeks of maternity
Speaking of which, he is still merrily snuggled up in me! My due date is 19 Jan but women can give birth any time within 2 weeks before/after that date. So at least I know my firm ‘deadline’ is 31 Jan or so. If I don’t pop in the next 2 weeks from today, I’ll be induced. Induction is not ideal but sometimes it’s better to have that than a really giant baby (which will increase my chances of a dreaded Cesarean). Plus, I’ll probably be desperate for it by the end of this month anyway π
The great thing about being on maternity leave is that I’ve been doing a ton of brunches and going out with fellow girl friends that aren’t working as well. That means girly pampering sessions galore, and loads of brunches that go on for hours π Oh, and shopping, of course! I haven’t taken photos or blogged of stuff I’ve bought recently because 1) it hasn’t really been that much since I’m a lot more interested in baby-shopping now and 2) too lazy to take photos and/or blog π
But I finally got off my bum and took pics of this preeeeeeetttttyyyyy Eastern Accents tourmaline & pearl necklace I bought recently! I love their boutique in Taikang Lu – everything is gorgeously displayed and the quality of the gems are super. I like how delicate the necklace is, and how it can be doubled/tripled up, and also worn as a bracelet.
Eastern Accents tourmaline & pearl necklace
It matches up nicely with the Flying Lizard Designs pearl & gemstone necklace
that I bought whilst on my USA trip!
And, my favourite of all…. some clothing from another boutique in Taikang Lu called Shokay. They sell the softest clothing, ever. Softer than the loveliest cashmere!! The secret is that it’s made with Tibetan yak down, sourced directly from Tibetan herders. They also use only raw fiber (which is zero pollution, and is naturally shed once a year, preserving the yaks indigenous to the Himalayan region). Best of all, they also give back and re-invest in the Tibetan community. Plus, did you know that Yaks only produce 100g of yak down each year? It’s way more rare than the best of cashmeres! I never knew that. And the quality really shows because the material of the clothing is so so so so so thin, yet it’s so warm and soft and snug.
I can’t really describe how mad-soft the material is… kind of similar to a cashmere-and-silk blend, but much thinner and finer and softer. You have to touch it to realise how nice it is! Anyway, Shokay sell online at their link above and ship internationally – I highly recommend their products and they’re not just for cold countries because the fiber is so comfortable it can be worn in warmer climates too.
I bought the 2 items below because I figure I’ll be spending months-on-end mostly at home and need really soft comfy clothes for winter and spring π
Shokay lounge hoodie with Tibetan yak down.
Shokay lounge pants with Tibetan yak down
I’m in the US and I don’t get any real maternity leave. I have to use up my sick and vacation days in order to get paid otherwise it’s unpaid maternity leave. How long do you get and is it paid?
I’m in the US and I don’t get any real maternity leave. I have to use up my sick and vacation days in order to get paid otherwise it’s unpaid maternity leave. How long do you get and is it paid?
Yeah, I’m trying to prepare myself mentally in case it does happen, I don’t want to beat myself up over it!
exactly. Think of it this way – The wedding was the beginning of your marriage. But the wedding wasnt your marriage. It was nice that everything went the way you wanted but… it was just the door to step through to be where you are, married. If everything went wrong on that day, well you guys would still be married and where you are…
The birth is just a door too… The baby is the point. However he gets here, natural, medicated or c-section and he’s healthy IS the right way.
I know when your pregnant the focus is all on the birth but really… think about it – the pregnancy is so long already and well, childhood… long too.
The birth is pretty short in comparison. Don’t get bogged down in what you think a perfect birth should be… Perfection is in the children π How they get here in 10 years won’t matter… Don’t let it matter to you now. It won’t matter to him π
Wow you guys must be so excited!
We’re just hanging in there now hehe.. hopefully soon!
Yeah, I’m trying to prepare myself mentally in case it does happen, I don’t want to beat myself up over it!
exactly. Think of it this way – The wedding was the beginning of your marriage. But the wedding wasnt your marriage. It was nice that everything went the way you wanted but… it was just the door to step through to be where you are, married. If everything went wrong on that day, well you guys would still be married and where you are…
The birth is just a door too… The baby is the point. However he gets here, natural, medicated or c-section and he’s healthy IS the right way.
I know when your pregnant the focus is all on the birth but really… think about it – the pregnancy is so long already and well, childhood… long too.
The birth is pretty short in comparison. Don’t get bogged down in what you think a perfect birth should be… Perfection is in the children π How they get here in 10 years won’t matter… Don’t let it matter to you now. It won’t matter to him π
Wow you guys must be so excited!
We’re just hanging in there now hehe.. hopefully soon!
Lucky you! My boy was 2 weeks early – arrived on the Monday the week I no longer had to work!
Anyway, I still had to have a C-Section as the boy was not completely cooperative.
Enjoy yourself now and when the Little One arrives, do enjoy and cherish every minute you can, (hormones and exhaustion aside). I did not think I’d say this then, but I miss the newborn days.
I def wouldn’t mind popping early.. it’s agony waiting 1 more week and still quite likely to go past my due date by 2 weeks, doh!
Lucky you! My boy was 2 weeks early – arrived on the Monday the week I no longer had to work!
Anyway, I still had to have a C-Section as the boy was not completely cooperative.
Enjoy yourself now and when the Little One arrives, do enjoy and cherish every minute you can, (hormones and exhaustion aside). I did not think I’d say this then, but I miss the newborn days.
I def wouldn’t mind popping early.. it’s agony waiting 1 more week and still quite likely to go past my due date by 2 weeks, doh!
oh i understand! it’s just good to keep in mind that a first time mom on average goes to 41 weeks 1 day, so it’s very silly when doctors try to pressure 100% healthy moms into inductions simply because they’re a week “overdue.” your body needs time to prep before labor for everything to go smoothly, and it’s so much harder when it’s artificially kick-started before it’s ready!
that said, from what you’ve described, i doubt you’ll be overdue anyway. π
Yeah fortunately the docs here are super-pro natural birth with no induction or c-section.. but that still doesn’t stop me from being impatient *ahem* π
I can’t wait to ‘meet’ your baby boy!
2 of the girls in the office (clearly, there was something exciting happening 9 months ago:) we’re due on January 19th and both of them gave birth last week!!! I’m sure you’ll have him any day now!
sending you postive vibes and hugs from Canada!
Ohhhh I’m so envious of them!! Wish I’d popped early too, but still waiting..
Glad you can keep being active. Cute necklace!
So far so good.. but sadly will have to rest for a few weeks after giving birth!
It is normal but usually if all goes well you can go back to the gym after 3 weeks or so I think..
oh i understand! it’s just good to keep in mind that a first time mom on average goes to 41 weeks 1 day, so it’s very silly when doctors try to pressure 100% healthy moms into inductions simply because they’re a week “overdue.” your body needs time to prep before labor for everything to go smoothly, and it’s so much harder when it’s artificially kick-started before it’s ready!
that said, from what you’ve described, i doubt you’ll be overdue anyway. π
Yeah fortunately the docs here are super-pro natural birth with no induction or c-section.. but that still doesn’t stop me from being impatient *ahem* π
Very interesting link to the Shokay website, Bev
Thanks for that, I will show it to Mrs T (She had this idea to promote and sell online handwoven fabrics and clothing from her minority in deep south Yunnan).
Wish you all the best for your end of pregnancy. Hope to see you and your baby boy and husband some fine day in spring or summer around Taikang Lu, when the weather will be sweet
Mr T
Ohh yeah she should check it out and especially their website to see how they’re doing it.
I can’t wait for spring to rock round too.. will be nice taking baby out wandering around Taikang Lu then π
I can’t wait to ‘meet’ your baby boy!
2 of the girls in the office (clearly, there was something exciting happening 9 months ago:) we’re due on January 19th and both of them gave birth last week!!! I’m sure you’ll have him any day now!
sending you postive vibes and hugs from Canada!
Ohhhh I’m so envious of them!! Wish I’d popped early too, but still waiting..
Hello there Bev! I thought the lack of updates meant you’d have popped! Guess not π Good luck and enjoy your me-time while you still can!
Hugs,
Sheila
Man I WISH! I’m over the boredom now and would rather just have our baby π
Glad you can keep being active. Cute necklace!
So far so good.. but sadly will have to rest for a few weeks after giving birth!
It is normal but usually if all goes well you can go back to the gym after 3 weeks or so I think..
Very interesting link to the Shokay website, Bev
Thanks for that, I will show it to Mrs T (She had this idea to promote and sell online handwoven fabrics and clothing from her minority in deep south Yunnan).
Wish you all the best for your end of pregnancy. Hope to see you and your baby boy and husband some fine day in spring or summer around Taikang Lu, when the weather will be sweet
Mr T
Ohh yeah she should check it out and especially their website to see how they’re doing it.
I can’t wait for spring to rock round too.. will be nice taking baby out wandering around Taikang Lu then π
Hello there Bev! I thought the lack of updates meant you’d have popped! Guess not π Good luck and enjoy your me-time while you still can!
Hugs,
Sheila
Man I WISH! I’m over the boredom now and would rather just have our baby π