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  • plwh888 posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:39 am

    aw… good that u guys are back again :’)

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:26 am

      🙂 It’s nice to make up! Was so hard being apart 🙁

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  • valska posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:54 am

    It’s great that you guys are working things out! 🙂 Have fun on your holiday.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:26 am

      Thanks 🙂 And your icon is SO ADORABLE!

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  • yrtoothfairy posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:05 am

    awww.. sunshine after the rain!! =D
    i’m sure both of u will come out stronger.. good on ya.. hugs!

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:27 am

      I think that’s the perfect way to describe it….. 🙂

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  • kare2711 posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:22 am

    Oh guess that was a ‘test’ to show you both are really meant for one another. Good that this has a happy ending.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:27 am

      Maybe, but enough ‘tests’, I don’t like them at all!

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  • farahdean posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:29 am

    *hugs* I am happy for you! & babe, didn’t I tell you that you are strong? 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:28 am

      Awww… thanks. In a way we were weak and just needed each other, and in a way we were strong to want to overcome this!

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  • natnatviv posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:55 am

    *huggies*

    Sometimes we take things for granted, hoping it will be better.
    Hope you and Chris work things out, for better or worse.

    Take care!

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:28 am

      That’s really true.. I think it’s important to air out any little thing, so that it doesn’t just grow in the back of your mind. We’ve learnt a lot 🙂

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  • itsabot posted on July 30, 2006 at 7:38 am

    I’m so happy to hear that the two of you are going to work things out. 🙂 I guess the saying is true, you don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:29 am

      Yes, it’s so true! I think we do treasure what we have more now, and we’re working on the rest 🙂

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  • isla_quack posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:08 am

    aww im so glad things worked out fine between u two 😀
    happy early 6th year anniversary 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:30 am

      Hehe thanks! We’re trying to think of it as kinda a ‘first date’.. as we now know a lot more about each other than we did before

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  • makeupmag posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:43 am

    *HUGS*

    What a lovely post to read. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 9:37 pm

      Thanks 🙂 I feel a lot better!
      Btw, I love your latest entry with the green eyes… *swoons*

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  • protozone posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:52 am

    This is a nice, heartwarming post. 🙂

    Enjoy your holiday.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:57 am

      I feel a lot better now… 🙂

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  • maarshymalloww posted on July 30, 2006 at 9:37 am

    hey bev, its lovely to see the both of you working things out. Love of this measure i dont see often enough.

    Blessed Aniversary in advance.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:58 am

      Me too, I hope we will work out in the long run.. I have a lot of faith in us, esp after what’s happened in the past week!

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  • __xopricktor posted on July 30, 2006 at 10:54 am

    so glad everything worked out!

    xoxo

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:15 am

      Well we’re still working it out slowly.. but enjoying it too 😛

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  • aqualuna posted on July 30, 2006 at 11:56 am

    I’m so glad to hear that things are working out between you two! I wish you all the best, Bev… I’m sure this whole experience teaches you to understand each other better.

    You are right. Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone… but once you realize that you’ve lost something good, you’ll learn not to take it for granted the next time around 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:16 am

      Awww thanks.. and yes, so true, we have learnt a lot in the past 2 weeks!

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  • bikkle posted on July 30, 2006 at 12:57 pm

    That’s great. Communication really helps, and I’m glad you guys are talking it through!~

    Best wishes from back down under….

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:16 am

      It’s funny how we always talked, but never *really* talked, if that makes sense! I’m glad we are now

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  • plwh888 posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:39 am

    aw… good that u guys are back again :’)

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:26 am

      🙂 It’s nice to make up! Was so hard being apart 🙁

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  • valska posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:54 am

    It’s great that you guys are working things out! 🙂 Have fun on your holiday.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:26 am

      Thanks 🙂 And your icon is SO ADORABLE!

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  • medlabtech posted on July 30, 2006 at 1:57 pm

    I’m happy to hear that you guys are working things out.

    Enjoy your “first date” holiday!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:20 am

      I’m really excited about it.. the sooner the better! 😛

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  • yrtoothfairy posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:05 am

    awww.. sunshine after the rain!! =D
    i’m sure both of u will come out stronger.. good on ya.. hugs!

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:27 am

      I think that’s the perfect way to describe it….. 🙂

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  • kare2711 posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:22 am

    Oh guess that was a ‘test’ to show you both are really meant for one another. Good that this has a happy ending.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:27 am

      Maybe, but enough ‘tests’, I don’t like them at all!

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  • jesuisariel posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:26 pm

    I am glad that things are working out for you and Chris. I hope you enjoy the holiday 🙂 Take care!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:21 am

      I hope they will too… i think we’re meant for each other 😀

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  • farahdean posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:29 am

    *hugs* I am happy for you! & babe, didn’t I tell you that you are strong? 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:28 am

      Awww… thanks. In a way we were weak and just needed each other, and in a way we were strong to want to overcome this!

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  • madmoneymonkey posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:30 pm

    Aww that’s great! I can invite him to my wedding again! Heh!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:21 am

      Heheheh!!! Well, if we are together then, I’m sure he’ll be there 😛

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  • myeisha_l posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:34 pm

    Enjoy your First Date!!! Good relationship is hard work. Wishing you both all the very best 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:22 am

      Yeah.. in a way a good relationship should require no work, yet it also requires a lot of work. If that makes sense!!

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      • myeisha_l posted on July 31, 2006 at 9:34 am

        I think i know what you mean 🙂

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  • to_want posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:46 pm

    I had been wondering how this situation was affecting you – the tone of your posts was different. I hope you enjoy your holiday and things work out for the best for you. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:23 am

      I’ve been feeling a little… fragile.. the past 1-2 weeks, I guess. I still am, it will take time for both of us to recover, but we hope for the best 🙂

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  • jarmz posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:48 pm

    hey, glad things are working out for you and glad that you’re happier 😉
    enjoy your holiday!
    *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:24 am

      We’re def happier together.. it was horrid being apart!

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  • natnatviv posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:55 am

    *huggies*

    Sometimes we take things for granted, hoping it will be better.
    Hope you and Chris work things out, for better or worse.

    Take care!

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:28 am

      That’s really true.. I think it’s important to air out any little thing, so that it doesn’t just grow in the back of your mind. We’ve learnt a lot 🙂

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  • hyperion1 posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:06 pm

    wishing you all the best *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:24 am

      *hugs* thanks! 😀

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  • pishako posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:19 pm

    I am so happy to hear this for you!! Smth that I was looking forward to seeing.

    Enjoy the hols of yours – it’s going to be a wizard. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:25 am

      We’re better off being with each other i think.. hehe.
      SO looking forward to our hol!!

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  • itsabot posted on July 30, 2006 at 7:38 am

    I’m so happy to hear that the two of you are going to work things out. 🙂 I guess the saying is true, you don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone.

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:29 am

      Yes, it’s so true! I think we do treasure what we have more now, and we’re working on the rest 🙂

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  • blueeyezz posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:40 pm

    I’m glad you did post. As someone else said, your tone in your other posts had been different…I’m glad that you two have decided to keep moving forward. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:45 am

      It’s really important that we really understand each other and what each other needs.. so some time away together will be good 🙂

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  • am_klutz posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:05 pm

    Wishing you both, the very best 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:46 am

      Awww thanks hon, I hope so too!!

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  • inthestill posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:06 pm

    As long as your happy Bev. ♥

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    • inthestill posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:08 pm

      *you’re

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:46 am

      I want us both to be… it’s so much better being together, we’ve discovered 🙂

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  • isla_quack posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:08 am

    aww im so glad things worked out fine between u two 😀
    happy early 6th year anniversary 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:30 am

      Hehe thanks! We’re trying to think of it as kinda a ‘first date’.. as we now know a lot more about each other than we did before

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  • waltzmatz posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:21 pm

    indeed it’s true.

    only when we lose something, then will we know how important that thing is to us. 🙂

    wishing you both a happy happy 1st date!

    1 Corinthians 13

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:39 am

      I always thought it was kinda a stupid saying… but now I realise what it truly means..

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  • esthered posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:25 pm

    I’m so glad you and Chris decided work things out.. After all, you guys have been together for so long. So I really hope you guys would be fine this time. <3 :)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:40 am

      Me too, I’m really glad.. we do need/etc each other so much 🙂

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  • makeupmag posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:43 am

    *HUGS*

    What a lovely post to read. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 30, 2006 at 9:37 pm

      Thanks 🙂 I feel a lot better!
      Btw, I love your latest entry with the green eyes… *swoons*

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  • protozone posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:52 am

    This is a nice, heartwarming post. 🙂

    Enjoy your holiday.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:57 am

      I feel a lot better now… 🙂

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  • mzangel84 posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:19 pm

    Weirdly enough I went through the same thing a week later from yours. =/ A friend advised not to hope/expect but it’s only natural to hope, isn’t it.

    And it’s very true, the saying that goes, “you’ll never know what you got till it’s gone”.

    I hope yours turns out well. =)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:41 am

      I guess I didn’t expect me to actually want it all back.. I thought we’d be better off apart back then, but now? I don’t think we can survive without each other!

      *hugs to you* 🙂

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  • daysies posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:24 pm

    i’m glad

    i’m glad that you and Chris worked things out. communication is the key to a successful relationship… and i’m glad you two talked and talked and talked until your heads hurt. i’ve been there and done that… and as long as you two talk through your differences, everything will work out. i’ve been through much worse but now i just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary as proof that everything will work itself out in the end. *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:45 am

      Re: i’m glad

      we’ll see how we go.. it will be good to just whack all our issues out 🙂

      Congrats on your 7th anniversary, it’s wonderful! 😀

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  • maarshymalloww posted on July 30, 2006 at 9:37 am

    hey bev, its lovely to see the both of you working things out. Love of this measure i dont see often enough.

    Blessed Aniversary in advance.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:58 am

      Me too, I hope we will work out in the long run.. I have a lot of faith in us, esp after what’s happened in the past week!

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  • heatherita posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:56 pm

    aww Bev I wish you two the best of luck. I hope ya’ll can work out your problems.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:45 am

      Thanks hon 🙂 I hope so too.. and hoping the best!

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  • renew posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:23 pm

    I’m so glad to hear that things are looking up for the two of you. Good luck! 😀

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:46 am

      It’s nice to at least recondier us and really really try and show each other what the other person means to us.. being in love is nice 🙂

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  • __xopricktor posted on July 30, 2006 at 10:54 am

    so glad everything worked out!

    xoxo

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:15 am

      Well we’re still working it out slowly.. but enjoying it too 😛

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  • aqualuna posted on July 30, 2006 at 11:56 am

    I’m so glad to hear that things are working out between you two! I wish you all the best, Bev… I’m sure this whole experience teaches you to understand each other better.

    You are right. Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone… but once you realize that you’ve lost something good, you’ll learn not to take it for granted the next time around 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:16 am

      Awww thanks.. and yes, so true, we have learnt a lot in the past 2 weeks!

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  • past_midnite posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:07 pm

    Good luck, Bev! *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:46 am

      thanks *grin* I hope we’ll be ok

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  • bikkle posted on July 30, 2006 at 12:57 pm

    That’s great. Communication really helps, and I’m glad you guys are talking it through!~

    Best wishes from back down under….

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:16 am

      It’s funny how we always talked, but never *really* talked, if that makes sense! I’m glad we are now

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  • medlabtech posted on July 30, 2006 at 1:57 pm

    I’m happy to hear that you guys are working things out.

    Enjoy your “first date” holiday!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:20 am

      I’m really excited about it.. the sooner the better! 😛

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  • jesuisariel posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:26 pm

    I am glad that things are working out for you and Chris. I hope you enjoy the holiday 🙂 Take care!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:21 am

      I hope they will too… i think we’re meant for each other 😀

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  • madmoneymonkey posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:30 pm

    Aww that’s great! I can invite him to my wedding again! Heh!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:21 am

      Heheheh!!! Well, if we are together then, I’m sure he’ll be there 😛

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  • myeisha_l posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:34 pm

    Enjoy your First Date!!! Good relationship is hard work. Wishing you both all the very best 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:22 am

      Yeah.. in a way a good relationship should require no work, yet it also requires a lot of work. If that makes sense!!

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      • myeisha_l posted on July 31, 2006 at 9:34 am

        I think i know what you mean 🙂

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  • to_want posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:46 pm

    I had been wondering how this situation was affecting you – the tone of your posts was different. I hope you enjoy your holiday and things work out for the best for you. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:23 am

      I’ve been feeling a little… fragile.. the past 1-2 weeks, I guess. I still am, it will take time for both of us to recover, but we hope for the best 🙂

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  • pikaluu posted on July 30, 2006 at 10:47 pm

    I’m so glad you guys are working things out 🙂 I think it’s awesome that you two are communicating in terms of what “went wrong” in the relationship. I think it’ll only make the relationship even stronger.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:47 am

      Whacking all our issues out together feels so good, to be honest.. we already did so much of it over the weekend, but I think it’s important we get it ALL out on our trip 🙂

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  • jarmz posted on July 30, 2006 at 2:48 pm

    hey, glad things are working out for you and glad that you’re happier 😉
    enjoy your holiday!
    *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:24 am

      We’re def happier together.. it was horrid being apart!

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  • hyperion1 posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:06 pm

    wishing you all the best *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:24 am

      *hugs* thanks! 😀

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  • pishako posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:19 pm

    I am so happy to hear this for you!! Smth that I was looking forward to seeing.

    Enjoy the hols of yours – it’s going to be a wizard. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:25 am

      We’re better off being with each other i think.. hehe.
      SO looking forward to our hol!!

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  • blueeyezz posted on July 30, 2006 at 3:40 pm

    I’m glad you did post. As someone else said, your tone in your other posts had been different…I’m glad that you two have decided to keep moving forward. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:45 am

      It’s really important that we really understand each other and what each other needs.. so some time away together will be good 🙂

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  • allo_miso posted on July 30, 2006 at 11:53 pm

    I’m glad you guys could work it out-though it seems impendable since you guys were and are together for a very long time. Lots of couples take mini breaks. In the end though, isn’t it funny how things work out usually for the better?

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:48 am

      Yeah.. the wonderful feeling of knowing that things are much better now… it’s priceless 🙂

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  • am_klutz posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:05 pm

    Wishing you both, the very best 🙂

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:46 am

      Awww thanks hon, I hope so too!!

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  • inthestill posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:06 pm

    As long as your happy Bev. ♥

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    • inthestill posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:08 pm

      *you’re

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:46 am

      I want us both to be… it’s so much better being together, we’ve discovered 🙂

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  • waltzmatz posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:21 pm

    indeed it’s true.

    only when we lose something, then will we know how important that thing is to us. 🙂

    wishing you both a happy happy 1st date!

    1 Corinthians 13

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:39 am

      I always thought it was kinda a stupid saying… but now I realise what it truly means..

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  • esthered posted on July 30, 2006 at 4:25 pm

    I’m so glad you and Chris decided work things out.. After all, you guys have been together for so long. So I really hope you guys would be fine this time. <3 :)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:40 am

      Me too, I’m really glad.. we do need/etc each other so much 🙂

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  • silver_crv posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:59 am

    good luck man…good luck

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:48 am

      Thanks 🙂

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  • mzangel84 posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:19 pm

    Weirdly enough I went through the same thing a week later from yours. =/ A friend advised not to hope/expect but it’s only natural to hope, isn’t it.

    And it’s very true, the saying that goes, “you’ll never know what you got till it’s gone”.

    I hope yours turns out well. =)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:41 am

      I guess I didn’t expect me to actually want it all back.. I thought we’d be better off apart back then, but now? I don’t think we can survive without each other!

      *hugs to you* 🙂

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  • daysies posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:24 pm

    i’m glad

    i’m glad that you and Chris worked things out. communication is the key to a successful relationship… and i’m glad you two talked and talked and talked until your heads hurt. i’ve been there and done that… and as long as you two talk through your differences, everything will work out. i’ve been through much worse but now i just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary as proof that everything will work itself out in the end. *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:45 am

      Re: i’m glad

      we’ll see how we go.. it will be good to just whack all our issues out 🙂

      Congrats on your 7th anniversary, it’s wonderful! 😀

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  • phona posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:47 am

    At least enjoy ythe holiday and the opportunity to talk things through. Sometimes we do need a crisis to have issues brought to light that were simmering for a ong time, and need that chance to discuss.

    Whatever the outcome, it will be a good experience. Good luck!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:50 am

      So true… the trip will be good for both of us 🙂

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  • finding_tricia posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:53 am

    I admire the both of you, it’s a tough ride but I sincerely hope everything will work out. Enjoy your trip!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:51 am

      Maybe a tough ride will make us realise how easy the past 5 years have been, and treasure it… 🙂

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  • heatherita posted on July 30, 2006 at 5:56 pm

    aww Bev I wish you two the best of luck. I hope ya’ll can work out your problems.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:45 am

      Thanks hon 🙂 I hope so too.. and hoping the best!

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  • renew posted on July 30, 2006 at 6:23 pm

    I’m so glad to hear that things are looking up for the two of you. Good luck! 😀

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:46 am

      It’s nice to at least recondier us and really really try and show each other what the other person means to us.. being in love is nice 🙂

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  • gingerstardrops posted on July 31, 2006 at 3:19 am

    Hey Bev, glad that from now on, i will see ‘us’ in your emtries again, instead of ‘I’.(if you know what i mean :p). I went through this period with Darren before and after our time apart, we realised that this is what we really wanted and we started anew again. Its been 7 years and its still great. Im sure you guys will turn out fine too.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:54 am

      I hope so… 🙂

      I’m glad you guys started afresh, you were meant for each other!

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  • fuchsiacow posted on July 31, 2006 at 3:23 am

    am so happy for you babe. =) hope everything works out splendidly for the both of you.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:57 am

      I hope so too……! I feel much better now already.. hehe

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  • past_midnite posted on July 30, 2006 at 8:07 pm

    Good luck, Bev! *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:46 am

      thanks *grin* I hope we’ll be ok

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  • eviltofu posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:14 am

    Good luck on your 1st date! And watch out for ants!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:58 am

      Hehe!
      Yeah, it’s nice to say it’s our 1st date

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  • baby_bugs posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:34 am

    Glad to hear you both are working at it. All the best! =)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:59 am

      Thanks *smile* I feel much better this week already.. 🙂

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  • etherealprey posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:43 am

    well whatever makes you happy. i’ve learned at this point in time relationships run their course wether you like it or not…hope things turn out well for you…

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:01 pm

      Yep, we’ll see how we go, it’ll be good to ‘get away’ and just rediscover each other

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  • islegrl posted on July 31, 2006 at 6:45 am

    Yay! I was actually really sad when you mentioned the possibility of a breakup but now I’m soooo happy that you guys are giving it another go. Yay!!! I think in a way, you were kind of like me…not quite ready to let go of your bf yet. Not being ready to let go means there’s still hope. I hope you two have the bestest time on your holiday. Just focus on each other and rekindle that love that’s always been there. Have fun, Bev! *^^* ♥♥♥

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:02 pm

      I”m really happy too.. I’ve decided the breakup was all wrong for us, we just needed to talk, that’s all 🙂
      And thank you! *hug*

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      • islegrl posted on July 31, 2006 at 8:23 pm

        I totally agree! Sometimes miscommunication turns into a lot of misunderstandings. Talking things out is definitely the best! *HUGS* back to you! *^^*

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  • pikaluu posted on July 30, 2006 at 10:47 pm

    I’m so glad you guys are working things out 🙂 I think it’s awesome that you two are communicating in terms of what “went wrong” in the relationship. I think it’ll only make the relationship even stronger.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:47 am

      Whacking all our issues out together feels so good, to be honest.. we already did so much of it over the weekend, but I think it’s important we get it ALL out on our trip 🙂

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  • allo_miso posted on July 30, 2006 at 11:53 pm

    I’m glad you guys could work it out-though it seems impendable since you guys were and are together for a very long time. Lots of couples take mini breaks. In the end though, isn’t it funny how things work out usually for the better?

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:48 am

      Yeah.. the wonderful feeling of knowing that things are much better now… it’s priceless 🙂

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  • supercamel posted on July 31, 2006 at 8:22 am

    Hi Bev, Glad to hear you rekindled tour love again. Awww .. all the best for the future.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:02 pm

      i’m looking forward to the hol, where we can really talk and rekindle 🙂 Yay!

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  • silver_crv posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:59 am

    good luck man…good luck

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:48 am

      Thanks 🙂

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  • phona posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:47 am

    At least enjoy ythe holiday and the opportunity to talk things through. Sometimes we do need a crisis to have issues brought to light that were simmering for a ong time, and need that chance to discuss.

    Whatever the outcome, it will be a good experience. Good luck!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:50 am

      So true… the trip will be good for both of us 🙂

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  • finding_tricia posted on July 31, 2006 at 1:53 am

    I admire the both of you, it’s a tough ride but I sincerely hope everything will work out. Enjoy your trip!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:51 am

      Maybe a tough ride will make us realise how easy the past 5 years have been, and treasure it… 🙂

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  • gingerstardrops posted on July 31, 2006 at 3:19 am

    Hey Bev, glad that from now on, i will see ‘us’ in your emtries again, instead of ‘I’.(if you know what i mean :p). I went through this period with Darren before and after our time apart, we realised that this is what we really wanted and we started anew again. Its been 7 years and its still great. Im sure you guys will turn out fine too.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:54 am

      I hope so… 🙂

      I’m glad you guys started afresh, you were meant for each other!

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  • fuchsiacow posted on July 31, 2006 at 3:23 am

    am so happy for you babe. =) hope everything works out splendidly for the both of you.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:57 am

      I hope so too……! I feel much better now already.. hehe

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  • eviltofu posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:14 am

    Good luck on your 1st date! And watch out for ants!

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:58 am

      Hehe!
      Yeah, it’s nice to say it’s our 1st date

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  • baby_bugs posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:34 am

    Glad to hear you both are working at it. All the best! =)

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:59 am

      Thanks *smile* I feel much better this week already.. 🙂

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  • etherealprey posted on July 31, 2006 at 4:43 am

    well whatever makes you happy. i’ve learned at this point in time relationships run their course wether you like it or not…hope things turn out well for you…

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:01 pm

      Yep, we’ll see how we go, it’ll be good to ‘get away’ and just rediscover each other

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  • islegrl posted on July 31, 2006 at 6:45 am

    Yay! I was actually really sad when you mentioned the possibility of a breakup but now I’m soooo happy that you guys are giving it another go. Yay!!! I think in a way, you were kind of like me…not quite ready to let go of your bf yet. Not being ready to let go means there’s still hope. I hope you two have the bestest time on your holiday. Just focus on each other and rekindle that love that’s always been there. Have fun, Bev! *^^* ♥♥♥

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:02 pm

      I”m really happy too.. I’ve decided the breakup was all wrong for us, we just needed to talk, that’s all 🙂
      And thank you! *hug*

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      • islegrl posted on July 31, 2006 at 8:23 pm

        I totally agree! Sometimes miscommunication turns into a lot of misunderstandings. Talking things out is definitely the best! *HUGS* back to you! *^^*

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  • supercamel posted on July 31, 2006 at 8:22 am

    Hi Bev, Glad to hear you rekindled tour love again. Awww .. all the best for the future.

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    • beverly posted on July 31, 2006 at 12:02 pm

      i’m looking forward to the hol, where we can really talk and rekindle 🙂 Yay!

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  • chisin posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:56 pm

    oh! I hope it works! good luck! *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:41 pm

      Me too.. I have every intention of doing my best to make it work out 🙂

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  • thefragrantelf posted on August 1, 2006 at 3:29 am

    So glad you’re working things out Bev! I hope you both have a fantastic break together. xox

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:42 pm

      I am SO looking forward to it… haven’t been on a decent holiday in ages 🙁

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  • larissy posted on August 1, 2006 at 6:51 am

    It’s good to hear that things are working out better for the both of you.

    Hope the time away is enjoyable and rekindles what you guys had – it made me sad when I heard about the break because you and Chris were always the 2 who I thought epitomised a great relationship.

    🙂

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:44 pm

      Thanks for your nice words 🙂
      We’ve always had a really great relationship and it’s only gotten.. ‘weird’… lately, so we’re both keen to get back what we had. We just need to be more understanding of each other, etc, I think..

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  • chisin posted on July 31, 2006 at 11:56 pm

    oh! I hope it works! good luck! *hugs*

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:41 pm

      Me too.. I have every intention of doing my best to make it work out 🙂

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  • khemany posted on August 1, 2006 at 8:17 am

    I am very happy for you both, you know sometimes it takes somehting like this to wake each other up and realise that while you love each other so much after a long time, people start getting….lazy? Its great they you both opened up your lines of communication and showed your true thoughts and feelings! YEYE

    it was a good wake up call, I wish you both the best.

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:45 pm

      That’s 100% true.. love DOES come easily, but it should also be worked on to keep it healthy 🙂

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  • thefragrantelf posted on August 1, 2006 at 3:29 am

    So glad you’re working things out Bev! I hope you both have a fantastic break together. xox

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:42 pm

      I am SO looking forward to it… haven’t been on a decent holiday in ages 🙁

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  • larissy posted on August 1, 2006 at 6:51 am

    It’s good to hear that things are working out better for the both of you.

    Hope the time away is enjoyable and rekindles what you guys had – it made me sad when I heard about the break because you and Chris were always the 2 who I thought epitomised a great relationship.

    🙂

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:44 pm

      Thanks for your nice words 🙂
      We’ve always had a really great relationship and it’s only gotten.. ‘weird’… lately, so we’re both keen to get back what we had. We just need to be more understanding of each other, etc, I think..

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  • khemany posted on August 1, 2006 at 8:17 am

    I am very happy for you both, you know sometimes it takes somehting like this to wake each other up and realise that while you love each other so much after a long time, people start getting….lazy? Its great they you both opened up your lines of communication and showed your true thoughts and feelings! YEYE

    it was a good wake up call, I wish you both the best.

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    • beverly posted on August 1, 2006 at 12:45 pm

      That’s 100% true.. love DOES come easily, but it should also be worked on to keep it healthy 🙂

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  • couturekitten posted on August 3, 2006 at 12:23 am

    As long as your happy and not settling for anything less then you want/deserve it sounds like things are going to be ok. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on August 3, 2006 at 7:10 am

      Thanks hon 🙂 I’m looking forward to next week… we really need it!

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  • couturekitten posted on August 3, 2006 at 12:23 am

    As long as your happy and not settling for anything less then you want/deserve it sounds like things are going to be ok. 🙂

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    • beverly posted on August 3, 2006 at 7:10 am

      Thanks hon 🙂 I’m looking forward to next week… we really need it!

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  • popcorn_feet posted on August 6, 2006 at 1:45 am

    well you already have 100+ responses to this but wanted to add mine anyway…I hope things work out wonderfully for you both!

    that you are happy and that you can work out the issues…

    all relationships do take work if they last long enough…its just the way it goes 😀

    so happy you are looking for a way to work it out…

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  • popcorn_feet posted on August 6, 2006 at 1:45 am

    well you already have 100+ responses to this but wanted to add mine anyway…I hope things work out wonderfully for you both!

    that you are happy and that you can work out the issues…

    all relationships do take work if they last long enough…its just the way it goes 😀

    so happy you are looking for a way to work it out…

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