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no way I LOVE swapping with people from Singapore some of my best swaps came from them and most of those girls I have swapped with are morality straight, unlike some American swappers who are rude.

Yeah, all my other swaps with SG MUAers have been awesome! I guess just one bad experience can ruin the bunch :T But at least it’s over now.. thank goodness. Can’t believe I waited 4 months?!

no way I LOVE swapping with people from Singapore some of my best swaps came from them and most of those girls I have swapped with are morality straight, unlike some American swappers who are rude.

Yeah, all my other swaps with SG MUAers have been awesome! I guess just one bad experience can ruin the bunch :T But at least it’s over now.. thank goodness. Can’t believe I waited 4 months?!

aRGH!

YET ANOTHER AUCTION THAT BIDDER REFUSED TO PAY FOR, DESPITE REPEATED EXCUSES.NO PAYMENT OR RESPONSE RECEIVED AFTER WEEKS. FRAUDULENT BIDDER. BLACKLIST!

WHY DON’T YOU TAKE THEM TO COURT LIKE YOU ALWAYS THREATEN TO DO.

Re: aRGH!

Hey it’s you again *waves*

This actually wasn’t an auction. And not sure if you know much about the law, but you can’t prosecute unless someone’s stolen your money. Helping someone out and having them take advantage of you isn’t illegal at all, just a bad case of social etiquette and morals. HTH πŸ™‚

aRGH!

YET ANOTHER AUCTION THAT BIDDER REFUSED TO PAY FOR, DESPITE REPEATED EXCUSES.NO PAYMENT OR RESPONSE RECEIVED AFTER WEEKS. FRAUDULENT BIDDER. BLACKLIST!

WHY DON’T YOU TAKE THEM TO COURT LIKE YOU ALWAYS THREATEN TO DO.

Re: aRGH!

Hey it’s you again *waves*

This actually wasn’t an auction. And not sure if you know much about the law, but you can’t prosecute unless someone’s stolen your money. Helping someone out and having them take advantage of you isn’t illegal at all, just a bad case of social etiquette and morals. HTH πŸ™‚

i had this problem with her as well.

though, i bought 70-80USD worth of clothes and she and her friend sent a bank draft over and i never got it. then now they accuse me of not having received it. i bought in march of ’02 i believe..

still no money yet but now we got the misunderstanding clear a month ago (before, some bickering) and are trying to work it out. they will do paypal now.

Ugh I received other MUA pages and LJ comments from others that have had problems with her. Can’t believe you’ve been going through this for *a year* :O You haven’t left a neg and neutral yet?!? I thought my 4 months was unbelievable as it is! Even if she pays, I’d still leave a neutral since a YEAR is just jaw-dropping. Because I found out that those that have had problems didn’t leave her bad tokens and so she’s free to do as she pleases and cheat others. Well, I left her a neg and neutral so she can’t do that anymore!

ouch

I’m sorry to hear that… if it’ll help any, I’ll buy the blush off you. I’ve been wanting to try Becca’s cosmetics anyway and I’m a sucker for blush. Plus I can send you funds right away via PayPal. Let me know! πŸ™

sweet

How much is the blush? If it doesn’t work out for you, krambear, my sister might be interested in buying it. I’ll ask her!

Re: ouch

Ooooh really? If you’re interested, it was US$24.10 and the total + shipping and paypal fees is US$28.30 via [email protected] Whether you choose to buy it or not, I just want to say THANKS for being so nice and trying to help me out! I Loooooove Becca stuff but I’m starting to hate the line just cos of this – looking at the box on my desk for 4 months gets to you after awhile πŸ˜‰

Re: ouch

I just sent you payment πŸ™‚ I can’t wait to receive it, you’ve had such good things to say about Becca. That girl is a moron, but hey, her loss and my gain!

Connie

I’ve done a couple of purchases for her. I eventually got the money but she was really annoying throughout the transaction. Constantly emailing me wanting to know why she hadn’t gotten her package yet, I couldn’t seem to make her understand that it takes 2 weeks or more sometimes. I think the only reason my purchases for her worked was because I insisted that she send the money before I bought anything.

Man at least you got the money.. I think I was just a pushover and kept merrily going “OK, sure, i understand, I’ll wait!” over and over. Funny how she can take FOUR MONTHS to send the money, yet can’t wait 2 weeks for something to get to her. BLoody hell.

Eeeks, that’s really horrible. It is very aggravating to think that there are people out there who will take advantage of another’s good nature to that extent.

Can you not swap/sell the blush away on MUA?

Yeah no kidding.. can’t believe I got taken for a ride for 4 months. Next time I’m not going to trust anyone, just to be safe. I can swap/sell it, but not for the retail value, and losing money just because I wanted to be kind is not making me very happy ;(

Dont you just hate people like that???

I had this happen to me before, we were supposed to be cp’ing for each other so the day we settled the agreement i went and bought her $38 us worth of stuff and i didnt hear from her again, i emailed her a lot but never got a reply and after about 2 months i emailed her again and someone else replied and it turned out to be her mother whos email it was and this girl was 14!! She never returned to makeupalley though cos i was the first person she was to swap with and i left a neutral so nobody else swapped with her as her one token was bad. Did you send this girls addy and her emails to the problem swapper list? Might help others πŸ™‚

Re: Dont you just hate people like that???

Ugh… that’s horrible. I guess the lesson is to assume to worst in everyone and make sure they pay you first before buying anything :T I didn’t send the girls’ info to the problem swapper list ‘cos she didn’t actually steal from me :T

oh man, sounds bad. i’ve swapped with her in the past though with no probs but guess she’s a good swapper gone bad.

I’ve heard from others that had the same problems with her.. so looks like she just has no concept of paying people back when she asks them to buy something and they do ;(

i think i need a lj account coz i never remember to include my name :p

anallise

Argh! this sucks. πŸ™ So sorry you had to go through this. Try to be positive, although it doesn’t feel like it right now, it’s probably better than being swaplifted or never receving your end…

I think it’s worse when you want to be nice to someone and do something for them.. and then they turn around and take advantage of you. Can’t believe that for the past few months I’ve just been so naive and believed everything she said!

oh dear, poor bev. is there anyway mecca would take it back since it has never been used? you wont get a refund but they might give you a credit for it.

i had this problem with her as well.

though, i bought 70-80USD worth of clothes and she and her friend sent a bank draft over and i never got it. then now they accuse me of not having received it. i bought in march of ’02 i believe..

still no money yet but now we got the misunderstanding clear a month ago (before, some bickering) and are trying to work it out. they will do paypal now.

Ugh I received other MUA pages and LJ comments from others that have had problems with her. Can’t believe you’ve been going through this for *a year* :O You haven’t left a neg and neutral yet?!? I thought my 4 months was unbelievable as it is! Even if she pays, I’d still leave a neutral since a YEAR is just jaw-dropping. Because I found out that those that have had problems didn’t leave her bad tokens and so she’s free to do as she pleases and cheat others. Well, I left her a neg and neutral so she can’t do that anymore!

ouch

I’m sorry to hear that… if it’ll help any, I’ll buy the blush off you. I’ve been wanting to try Becca’s cosmetics anyway and I’m a sucker for blush. Plus I can send you funds right away via PayPal. Let me know! πŸ™

sweet

How much is the blush? If it doesn’t work out for you, krambear, my sister might be interested in buying it. I’ll ask her!

Re: ouch

Ooooh really? If you’re interested, it was US$24.10 and the total + shipping and paypal fees is US$28.30 via [email protected] Whether you choose to buy it or not, I just want to say THANKS for being so nice and trying to help me out! I Loooooove Becca stuff but I’m starting to hate the line just cos of this – looking at the box on my desk for 4 months gets to you after awhile πŸ˜‰

Re: ouch

I just sent you payment πŸ™‚ I can’t wait to receive it, you’ve had such good things to say about Becca. That girl is a moron, but hey, her loss and my gain!

Connie

I’ve done a couple of purchases for her. I eventually got the money but she was really annoying throughout the transaction. Constantly emailing me wanting to know why she hadn’t gotten her package yet, I couldn’t seem to make her understand that it takes 2 weeks or more sometimes. I think the only reason my purchases for her worked was because I insisted that she send the money before I bought anything.

Man at least you got the money.. I think I was just a pushover and kept merrily going “OK, sure, i understand, I’ll wait!” over and over. Funny how she can take FOUR MONTHS to send the money, yet can’t wait 2 weeks for something to get to her. BLoody hell.

Eeeks, that’s really horrible. It is very aggravating to think that there are people out there who will take advantage of another’s good nature to that extent.

Can you not swap/sell the blush away on MUA?

Yeah no kidding.. can’t believe I got taken for a ride for 4 months. Next time I’m not going to trust anyone, just to be safe. I can swap/sell it, but not for the retail value, and losing money just because I wanted to be kind is not making me very happy ;(

Argh.. figures. I had heaps of problems with other girls from Laundro that thought the world revolved around them and had no responsibility to realise that you have to actually PAY someone if you buy something from them :T What’s her username?

She actually has multiple. I can’t remember but they all have ‘roxy’ or a variant of it in it.. She lives near me you know?

Why would one need to use multiple usernames simultaneously?
Maybe you can go and knock on her door πŸ˜‰ Actually I have her address and I’ll be back in SG soon.. considering calling her parents up and letting them know what’s going on – especially since I found out others have had problems too and not just myself :T

I really can’t remember but it was something like fluffyroxy or something. Can’t be too sure about that. You should consider doing the call up parents thing. πŸ™‚ Afterall, you are EXCELLENT at bustinng frauds.

Heh nah.. I’m over it now and calmed down ‘cos I sold the blush to someone who paid in an hour, so I’m very happy about that πŸ™‚ I just have to be more cautious next time and make sure I’m actually paid before I buy something for someone!

‘Cos she could only send via snail mail and I told her that I could go into the city in the next few days and get it for her provided she send payment immediately. She agreed :T

But yeah, if I ever do any more cps in the future, I’ll NEVER EVER EVER buy the item first – no matter how nice/sweet they are to me. It just isn’t worth it :T

Dont you just hate people like that???

I had this happen to me before, we were supposed to be cp’ing for each other so the day we settled the agreement i went and bought her $38 us worth of stuff and i didnt hear from her again, i emailed her a lot but never got a reply and after about 2 months i emailed her again and someone else replied and it turned out to be her mother whos email it was and this girl was 14!! She never returned to makeupalley though cos i was the first person she was to swap with and i left a neutral so nobody else swapped with her as her one token was bad. Did you send this girls addy and her emails to the problem swapper list? Might help others πŸ™‚

Re: Dont you just hate people like that???

Ugh… that’s horrible. I guess the lesson is to assume to worst in everyone and make sure they pay you first before buying anything :T I didn’t send the girls’ info to the problem swapper list ‘cos she didn’t actually steal from me :T

oh man, sounds bad. i’ve swapped with her in the past though with no probs but guess she’s a good swapper gone bad.

I’ve heard from others that had the same problems with her.. so looks like she just has no concept of paying people back when she asks them to buy something and they do ;(

i think i need a lj account coz i never remember to include my name :p

anallise

Argh! this sucks. πŸ™ So sorry you had to go through this. Try to be positive, although it doesn’t feel like it right now, it’s probably better than being swaplifted or never receving your end…

I think it’s worse when you want to be nice to someone and do something for them.. and then they turn around and take advantage of you. Can’t believe that for the past few months I’ve just been so naive and believed everything she said!

oh dear, poor bev. is there anyway mecca would take it back since it has never been used? you wont get a refund but they might give you a credit for it.

Argh.. figures. I had heaps of problems with other girls from Laundro that thought the world revolved around them and had no responsibility to realise that you have to actually PAY someone if you buy something from them :T What’s her username?

She actually has multiple. I can’t remember but they all have ‘roxy’ or a variant of it in it.. She lives near me you know?

Why would one need to use multiple usernames simultaneously?
Maybe you can go and knock on her door πŸ˜‰ Actually I have her address and I’ll be back in SG soon.. considering calling her parents up and letting them know what’s going on – especially since I found out others have had problems too and not just myself :T

I really can’t remember but it was something like fluffyroxy or something. Can’t be too sure about that. You should consider doing the call up parents thing. πŸ™‚ Afterall, you are EXCELLENT at bustinng frauds.

Heh nah.. I’m over it now and calmed down ‘cos I sold the blush to someone who paid in an hour, so I’m very happy about that πŸ™‚ I just have to be more cautious next time and make sure I’m actually paid before I buy something for someone!

‘Cos she could only send via snail mail and I told her that I could go into the city in the next few days and get it for her provided she send payment immediately. She agreed :T

But yeah, if I ever do any more cps in the future, I’ll NEVER EVER EVER buy the item first – no matter how nice/sweet they are to me. It just isn’t worth it :T