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posted on September 5, 2002 at 8:04 am
hey bev, don’t let this get u down but my own philosophy is that its best to exercise caution on the internet…i’m juz surprised that some sg gals actually think u put the pix up…and honestly, i must say that it was really early when u got flamed on MUA and by the time i saw it, it was like way down on the cafe board. but u know what, cheer up! it’s just the internet 🙂
posted on September 5, 2002 at 7:56 pm
im so sorry you have to go through all this. You have such a wonderful life and everyone knows that its in an evil persons nature to bring you down when you are at your best. dont let them win. When people on the internet and sometimes in real life see that someones life is so great they will do their darnest to break that, but you need to prove them that no matter what they do you will remain on top.
same thing on laundro they were jelouse of you they were jelouse of your style why? Because they are too lazy to get the same.
i love ya! bye!
posted on September 5, 2002 at 8:22 pm
Re: hey bev
Awww.. thanks! You’re a complete angel 🙂 The main thing that frustrates me is why life offline can be so perfect and everyone is wonderful.. yet online there are people that pick fights, are nasty and generally act like 10 year olds. It’s kinda sad 🙁
I guess you get the same too huh, since you have a great husband and 2 absolutely gorgeous kids. Not to mention that you still look hot after all that! You make me jealous too.. ‘cos I showed Chris your pics and he was astounded that you’d already had 2 kids and still like like *that* 😛
posted on September 6, 2002 at 9:32 am
when i used to go to messeage boards it was like that but not anymore i just go to live journal and when i have money ebay.
posted on September 6, 2002 at 5:09 am
I wonder who’s that idiot who said that u are related to callan chua. And to think she’s from Sg too! Doesn’t she know that there are tons of Chuas ard in SG?! Dum dum
And bev, ignore her, she’s just jealous of you or what, childish enemy u’ve got there. “bo liao”!
posted on September 7, 2002 at 7:02 am
Ah well.. I’m resting on the hope the rest of the MUAers are a bit broadminded to realise that just because 2 people have the same last name and come from the same country, they’re thus related. I got a lot of pages from ladies who couldn’t believe what was going on, so that really helped too, knowing that people weren’t guillible enough to believe random stuff like that 🙂
But you know what? After bitching & moaning to Callan, he actually wrote to Hara and Elky – not about me, but to tell them that if ANY MUAer ever saw their pic there, they can email him and he will remove it asap, no questions asked. And he does seem earnest and really willing to appease the MUAers, especially the SG girls who got their pics uploaded.. so now I don’t mind if I really do find out I’m somehow related to him, because he’s dealt with all this so maturely 🙂
I showed a few of my guy friends though, and they were actually *excited* about the site, and quickly started surfing through it look for pretty girls. Sooooo sad, ‘cos girls would never surf through pics of guys like that and drool!!
posted on September 7, 2002 at 11:16 am
“Sooooo sad, ‘cos girls would never surf through pics of guys like that and drool!!”
hmmmmmm….wanna bet? ;-D
posted on September 7, 2002 at 11:38 pm
Well… OK OK, *sometimes* we do that 😛 But not as bad (I hope!)
posted on September 8, 2002 at 11:53 pm
Yeah, I get what u mean. Callan also emailed a reply of that email he sent to hara and elky.. well wat can I say? Just forget abt the whole thing…
posted on September 9, 2002 at 5:28 am
Yeah.. at least it worked out and they’ve changed their system of uploading pics as well as picture-removing, so it was worth it!
posted on September 11, 2002 at 9:57 am
Yeah, so not all of yr effort is for nothing, you know? =P
posted on September 6, 2002 at 7:53 am
Hi Beverly, I noticed this post is friends only and since I’m new I hope you wont think I’m butting it. Anyway, havent really been keeping track of whats happening on the MUA boards but I get the general gist of it I think. My advice is just not to care about what those pple think, they’re just bored and jealous and trying to pick at every word you say in the hope that other pple will believe their accusations. But I’m sure that a lot of the other pple on MUA will know better than to believe their groundless and childish accusations.
I suppose it is easy to just backstab pple online, coz of the anonynous factor. And it is a terrible feeling to know that someone has backstabbed you. I’ve personally had a friend (a friend back in singapore, not an online friend) who did it to me last year over this guy whom we were both involved with, and it really hurt coz she was a really close friend. She even tried to turn my best friend against me. Its really complicated but basically I didnt even know what was going on till the guy found out and told me. Anyway what I’m trying to say is you just have to be careful I guess. But it sounds as if your offline friends are fantastic and thats great.
Hope you wont think I’m a busybody! You sound like a nice girl from your journal and I just though I’ll contribute my 2 cents. 🙂
Btw, what’s a troll? On the message board that is, not the ones in myths and fairytales. 😉
posted on September 7, 2002 at 11:43 pm
Hey thanks 🙂 I got around 50+ pages from MUAers who were really shocked at the behaviour of the trolls and “ladies” that kept trying to convince everyone else, so it really helps that everyone’s just seeing it as a troll-attack and not taking it seriously.
Yeah I hate how people think it’s fine to backstab online just ‘cos it’s quite anonymous and ‘safe’. That’s why *real* friends are better sometimes! THat’s awful that your “friend” tried to do that to you.. did the guy and best friend believe her at all? I think that’s the worst – when people actually start believing the liar.
PS. a troll is someone with a ‘fake’ account, that is, without a swaplist or wishlist or tokens and don’t post about any normal topic, they only posted on the topic they want to fight with you about, OR they pick on a few people and always reply to their post with rudeness, etc.. basically people who don’t have much of a life outside of the computer and spend all their free time behaving like that.
posted on September 8, 2002 at 8:30 am
Well I’ve know my best friend since we were 12 so she knows me better then to believe her. And the guy didnt believe her either. In fact he was the one that warned me against her.
Anyway just ignore those trolls, they really have no life and nothing better to do.
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